Dealing with asleep people

14  2016-04-30 by Dampsquid27

I'm a single female, I would like a boyfriend but I feel my world view is fundamental to who I am and most guys I meet seem to be sjw's. When and how do you unleash your opinions about the new world order on a new friend or a potential partner?

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I would tell them that history has been defined by secrecy and conspiracy, and have them read this list of confirmed conspiracy theories

https://www.reddit.com/r/conspiracy/comments/4g7jay/updated_compilation_of_confirmed_conspiracy/

If they don't immediately get it, tell them they are too stupid to tap this and then booty bounce them out of your apartment.

Shameless tagging into this but have you done a long post on why 911 was an inside job? I always look out for your posts and I would like your view on 911 being an inside job.

Thanks.

Thanks, I've saved it, perhaps one day I'll get to unleash it on a future potential partner haha

It's a self selection process. Unless you are at work, why would you want to continue to wear a mask that is not who you are? It's hard enough trying to manage your work mask, why would you want to continue wearing yet another mask so that you can get a "boyfriend"?

Ah fuck em. I'm even open about my opinions with colleagues. I honestly don't care what they think, but more and more I see they laugh.... but listen. I'm still that crazy conspiracy guy that carries a get home bag in his car, but it doesn't hurt my standing at work either professionally or socially one bit.

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I find 7 year olds work best ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

I wonder what the context of your reply was.

Fuck I don't remember but it was something about teaching or molding young people

Casully ease them into it. Bring up small topics that are controversial.
"They made a movie about Edward Snowden. Do you know who he is? Ect..."

This

Yes this is how I went about it with my ex, he was never fully on board with it all, and mostly switched off when I began talking about it which was frustrating but on the other hand he was never very politically minded so I wasn't up against an angry liberal. In terms of that specific relationship he was aware of my stance but we rarely discuss politics or conspiracies so I didn't mind keeping those worlds separate, it was known in general to him about how I felt so it wasn't a secret.

The problem is these lefties. I wouldn't label myself rightwing or anything (as we know it's a Hegelian dialectic) but if you express any differing views they see you as Hitler. I'm ok with not bringing up politics/conspiracies but I struggle to shut my mouth if they bring those topics up. It seems like to me the default settings for people I meet (early 30s in London UK) is to be a lefties. Some of them might be alright if they were deprogrammed.

deprogrammed huh

so you think the whole humanity should take care of companies and businesses first before their people, hunger and poverty?

No

Lol OP how are the guys you meet "sjws" exactly?

Ok sjw was a bit strong, I mean almost everyone I meet identifies as a left wing liberal.

don't let the brainless twits get you down. no matter your age, you should never dumb down! not for a man, not for any reason. the funny thing is, once you know the kind of guy you want; you'll attract all the losers (personal experience) as if life is "testing" you.

don't fall into the trap that you HAVE TO be coupled up with someone just because your friends have a bf. desperate females are not perceived as attractive.

my suggestion is to stop fretting about it, really; just be you, live your life & do what makes you happy. then you'll meet the one (but his name won't be Neo).

~ ; )

don't fall into the trap that you HAVE TO be coupled up with someone just because your friends have a bf. desperate females are not perceived as attractive.

As someone who was a best man and is currently the 3rd wheel to their marriage I agree.

To the OP;

As to finding someone with the same degree of world understanding; after dating someone who did it just felt like we were both preaching to the choir.

Ultimately your world views could be completely opposite and you should still be able to be together. All you need in a working relationship is trust, communication, and compromise.

Don't go rushing into anything.

As for ice breakers my favorite has always been explaining how the electoral college actually picks our POTUS and our vote is just a suggestion. Especially with all the blatant fraud going on in this election; makes it a easy one for the moment.

Yell at them like this

With simple questions such as:

  • Do you know much about the federal Reserve?

  • Why do you think the US have been in war continuously for more than 100 years?

  • Do you think those that fund the candidates influence the candidates to have certain positions?

EDIT: I see you're from the UK. My friend is in Liverpool lol if by any stroke of luck you're there then you could go meet him up.

I guess you're still single.

No I live in Texas.

Use humor to break the ice when suggesting opinions about the new world order.

George Carlin was really great at this. Provide thought filled meaningful conversation through satire or jokes.

Usually it works, but some people are so dense nothing can get though to them.

Damn, are you me in girl form?

we could use a way to meet other truthers in real life for sure, if it leads to dating so much the better

You have to learn to speak in a way that'll open their eyes. The Word is powerful but it cuts like a sword. Hence why trying to find truth is a lonely journey.

My favorite way to do this is broach common topics to find out what interests the person you are talking to most. It's hard to create interest when you're not an expert on every subject, but you can build on what's already there.

I've found that a really easy one for people is how bad processed food is in America. When you start to look out for things that are bad for you you start to realize a lot of these known toxins are in everything. High fructose corn syrup is a good example.

Most people will agree that it is very difficult in America to get food that is actually good for you affordably. And then the question becomes why?

From there you can easily segue into a other reasons to distrust the establishment and government regulators.

Watch the Mel Gibson / Julia Roberts film together. Then jokingly bring up the conspiracies. If they are asleep, you will have to be patient. I once mocked a friend harder than a pro-shill, only to realize how RIGHT they were all along. People will take the journey when they are ready to see the light.

I just right into it as its something thats very important to me. And is something i always talk about.

Well you could:

  1. Try and mold someone. That has it's pros and cons
  2. Reach out to like minded people. Whether it be forums, conventions, etc etc.

I personally have had bad experiences trying to mold people. I'm also not really in a geographical area for conventions and forums. So, it's just me and my dog. These topics can ultimately lead to a lonely life, but there are pros and cons. I'm a male, so I don't really need a female partner. But, females tend to need males..

You just got to meet yourself a nice Eskimo lady Putin!

I actually know a few. Coolest chicks I've ever met (one is gorgeous). Tribal stuff can get complicated though, because I'm a white man and not a native, lol.

Wait just you and your dog? No family?

Yup. Just me and my girl/pup. Family is in the lower states and elsewhere in the world.

Dont want to make it personal but fully alone with no intention of getting a gf/getting married? How do you cope? I suppose the beauty is the peace.

Mate, I have friends (and a business). You can't live where I do without friends (I mean you could but you'd have to be a fucking complete bad ass).

As for a gf/wife. I've already been in love in my life (not exactly basing my existence on it. I've had it). That relationship lasted for years and completely changed my thinking.

I find solace in solitude. I love myself and enjoy myself (I cherish people's company every now and then). A great test is to be able to drink hard with yourself. If you cannot (enjoy your own company/face demons), why would others want to ;)?

Know thy self, and love thyself. It's not as lonely as you may think, especially if you are as spiritual as I am. Plus, I'm never really alone (animals in the wild). I'm where we as humans are supposed to be, in nature.

Nicely done. Thinking of moving out of this shithole Urban area and somewhere where i can find peace. Still searching.

I wish you the best of luck. A little advice, know yourself before you head off into the woods. Even if it's just rural, know yourself and be prepared mentally. That is the most important thing. Physically, it's hard, but not like the mental aspect of it. Very different.

Thanks for the advice.

As for a gf/wife. I've already been in love in my life (not exactly basing my existence on it. I've had it). That relationship lasted for years and completely changed my thinking.

That was going to be my guess. Generally the people I've meet not seeking relationships are either very independent or have at some point been in a long-term relationships.

Just my observations..

Yeah, I don't want to get into too much detail. But, we started fairly young and lasted for years. It was a roller coaster ride. I'm not against finding someone, just not actively seeking (I'm also very independent). If it happens again, it happens. I have a female dog, so maybe that is the substitute. She likes to cuddle and that dog will die to protect me.

Sounds like my story but my dog is a male Siberian.

I'm a male myself but I know what you mean, it's that unconditional love.

I'm a male myself but I know what you mean, it's that unconditional love.

Yup. That's the biggest thing. She is special to me, because she comes from the bloodline of the dog I originally had with the partner I was talking about. She's a Husky/Shepard mix. Looks like a wolf.

That was going to be my guess. Generally the people I've meet not seeking relationships are either very independent or have at some point been in a long-term relationships.

Sex is for the living. Marriage is for the dead. The only real point of monogamy is to have someone who is willing to hold your hand during the last fifteen minutes.

I saw a couple just last night. The guy claimed that they'd been together for six years and were still on their honeymoon; but his wife ate the entirety of a pizza which he had bought for their dinner, to the point where he actually told her to do it in order to shut her up.

Any type of intimate long term cohabitation with another human being (whether male or female, sexual or otherwise) is a form of imprisonment, and will generally involve continual psychological warfare. Although tactics can widely vary, you will virtually never find anyone who will not attempt to subjugate you. Dominate or be dominated is the rule.

Yup. Just me and my girl/pup. Family is in the lower states and elsewhere in the world.

Dont want to make it personal but fully alone with no intention of getting a gf/getting married? How do you cope? I suppose the beauty is the peace.